I'm Saying Don't Judge Me Until You've Walked In My Shoes

It's called first impressions. Its human behavior science. All human beings do it, not just based on religion or your parent status but on height, weight, age, culture, language etc. It takes just one-tenth of a second for us to make a first impression. It is never going to go away. So live your life the way you want to project yourself instead of trying to change the world to suit you.

In psychology, a first impression is the event when one person first encounters another person and forms a mental image of that person. Impression accuracy varies depending on the observer and the target (person, object, scene, etc.) being observed. First impressions are based on a wide range of characteristics: age, race, culture, language, gender, physical appearance, accent, posture, voice, number of people present, and time allowed to process. The first impressions individuals give to others could greatly influence how they are treated and viewed in many contexts of everyday life.

Yes, but that doesn't mean that every way of life is acceptable. I'm not talking about yours, specifically. I have no opinion on that. I just mean that everyone is entitled to their opinion, so don't be concerned with people who judge you. At the end of the day, that's all they can really do. It's your life, live it to the best of your ability. While everyone is entitled to their opinion, the opinions of most people don't actually matter unless you assign value to them.

@madhatter true i agree but really my culture and home life is nobody's business as long we aint breaking any laws. which in my state and country were not.

Sassy. Sorry but it is the truth. I am an immigrant working in a male dominated industry. I deal with this everyday. Good luck <3

Only the narrow minded have trouble like that. The rest of us understand and agree with you.

yes i live in a male dominant culture. its part of our religious beliefs that the men are the ones in charge.

i see what you mean quest