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What's the biggest mind fuck or plot twist you've given someone who was judging/harassing you?
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My narcissist father was over for dinner. One of only a handful of times he's been invited in 15 years. My then 9ish yr old reached for a 3rd or 4th piece of garlic bread and my dad without fail started in with "smear it on your hips it'll get there faster" something I heard many MANY times as a girl. It took me years to get over my body issues.
Oh heeeeell no. Not my baby.
I [i]immediately[/i] stood up shoving my chair back so hard it almost fell over. Pointed right in my dad's face "DONT YOU [u]EVER[/u] SAY THAT TO HER AGAIN. UNDERSTAND? DO YOU UNDERSTAND!?"
The look of shock on his face was priceless. I never really stood up to my dad like that and it felt so good [aside from my seething mama bear rage] Usually ignoring / avoiding him is my safest approach so it was a huge therapy is working moment. I'm still proud of myself. Dad was never invited to dinner again.
Oh heeeeell no. Not my baby.
I [i]immediately[/i] stood up shoving my chair back so hard it almost fell over. Pointed right in my dad's face "DONT YOU [u]EVER[/u] SAY THAT TO HER AGAIN. UNDERSTAND? DO YOU UNDERSTAND!?"
The look of shock on his face was priceless. I never really stood up to my dad like that and it felt so good [aside from my seething mama bear rage] Usually ignoring / avoiding him is my safest approach so it was a huge therapy is working moment. I'm still proud of myself. Dad was never invited to dinner again.
Colonelmustardseed 路 36-40
I love when a person is unbullyable.
Back in 6th grade, a kid tried to blackmail me after I broke some rule (I forget what). I said I鈥檇 give him my allowance in a couple days if he didn鈥檛 say anything. Well, I didn鈥檛 get an allowance and I told him so when he showed up to collect the money. He got mad and ripped a book I鈥檇 been reading out of my hands and threw it. I picked it up, and he started screaming in my face. I pushed him. Because I was always a shy, quiet kid, he definitely wasn鈥檛 expecting that and wasn鈥檛 sure if I was able to really hurt him. But he clearly wasn鈥檛 willing to find out, and he didn鈥檛 bother me again after that.
Back in 6th grade, a kid tried to blackmail me after I broke some rule (I forget what). I said I鈥檇 give him my allowance in a couple days if he didn鈥檛 say anything. Well, I didn鈥檛 get an allowance and I told him so when he showed up to collect the money. He got mad and ripped a book I鈥檇 been reading out of my hands and threw it. I picked it up, and he started screaming in my face. I pushed him. Because I was always a shy, quiet kid, he definitely wasn鈥檛 expecting that and wasn鈥檛 sure if I was able to really hurt him. But he clearly wasn鈥檛 willing to find out, and he didn鈥檛 bother me again after that.
Queendragonfly 路 31-35, F
@Colonelmustardseed Ohh Unbullyable. I like that. That's my new mantra from now on 馃憣馃専
Nicely done! High five! Acting crazy angry or crazy kind is the best methods to disempower a bully.
Nicely done! High five! Acting crazy angry or crazy kind is the best methods to disempower a bully.
Colonelmustardseed 路 36-40
@Queendragonfly I agree that kindness is a good way to deal with bullies; especially since so many of them are likely going through something that they aren鈥檛 able to deal with a better way. Kids with abuse in the homes or if they鈥檙e unable to handle certain feelings, like how your bully couldn鈥檛 just say she liked you instead of targeting you.
Queendragonfly 路 31-35, F
@Colonelmustardseed Are you in my brain and stealing my thoughts?
FreeSpirit1 路 51-55, F
Queendragonfly 路 31-35, F
@FreeSpirit1 Thanks 馃憤馃徎馃槃
AnonymousJSS 路 22-25, F
Queendragonfly 路 31-35, F
@AnonymousJSS Aha, and what's the plot twist you gave him?
ChiefWalksWith40oz 路 26-30
One time I beat some dudes ass then the next time I saw him, he was really happy to see me 馃し when I didn't recognize him he told me "you beat my ass! Made my eye bleed that one time" like he was all excited about it 馃槄
THEN I remembered him so we just talked for a minute like we were friends. Idk why he was so glad to see me lol
THEN I remembered him so we just talked for a minute like we were friends. Idk why he was so glad to see me lol
Queendragonfly 路 31-35, F
@ChiefWalksWith40oz The bless of a short memory 馃槀
HatterM 路 46-50, M
Mine is too big to talk about almost thirty years later.
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NinaTina 路 26-30, F
@Eddiesolds im not getting into a fight over some petty shit lol
Eddiesolds 路 56-60, M
NinaTina 路 26-30, F
@Eddiesolds you know i never thought about that. But i doubt it the way she acts.
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