I Won't Judge You

Instead of judging people we should try to understand what they are dealing with, but we also need to learn to communicate better with those we love the most.

"The man doesn't know that there is a snake underneath.The woman doesn't know that there is a stone pressing on the man.

The woman thinks: "I am going to fall! and I can't climb because the snake is going to bite me! Why can't the man use a little more strength and pull me up!"

The man thinks: "I am in so much pain! Yet I'm still pulling you as much as I can! why don't you try and climb a little harder?!"

The moral is: You can't see the pressure the other party is under, and the other party can't see pain you're in. This is life, no matter whether it's with work, family, feelings, friends, family, you should try to understand each other, learn to think differently, think of each other, and communicate better."

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Pfuzylogic · M

The last time someone told me that I wouldn’t be judged I got blocked from them.
They forgot.

diablesse · 56-60, F

@Pfuzylogic But at least you didn't get judged... ;)Condemned without judgement. They probably did you a favor, you're better off without that kind of person.

Pfuzylogic · M

@diablesse
I think most everyone considers themselves nonjudgemental because they never faced someone they judged.

diablesse · 56-60, F

@Pfuzylogic Perhaps, but there are a rare few who instead of judging, try to see things from another's perspective.

Pfuzylogic · M

@diablesse The rare few are deluded because the same thing that broke the judged will break the judges.

diablesse · 56-60, F

@Pfuzylogic Maybe they are, or maybe they're the ones who have the right attitude.

Pfuzylogic · M

@diablesse
The only judges I trust at that level are in Superior Courts where their calls can be appealed.