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Are you honest with your Mr/Mrs?

Truth is unless your other half knows about your time on social networking sites, has no problem with it, maybe they converse on them to..
Then your marriage/relationship can't really be that honest or happy.
Some people come on sites like this to spice things up I guess 🤷
However, if you're not totally honest with them or yourself then....you can't be truly happy to want to spend alot of your time on here and other social media sites.

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AtticEscapee · F

Most are cheating on their spouses - especially the ones who claim to have wonderful spouses and are happily married. If they were happily married they would be spending time with their spouses and NOT answering sex questions from the deviant disgusting creeps that slither and crawl these sites.

Lanie78 · 41-45, F

@AtticEscapee Yeah fair point. They definitely wouldn't be spending so much time here if they were truly happy in their relationships. People just need to be honest with themselves and partners. Could save potential uncomfortable conversations in the future 🤷

SW-User

@AtticEscapee I’ve seen many people claim to be happily married yet are constantly flirting with people here.

SW-User

@AtticEscapee Yep this!
If the marriage is so grand why do they need so much attention from creeps online. Something doesn't add up. Some are never satisfied or borderline narcissists.

MarieUK · 36-40, F

I came off facebook a few years ago but one of the chats I remember was a couple I know going something like
Him " Shall we have a cup of Tea"
Her "would love one "
Him "put the kettle on then",
Her "ok but your making it"
While they were sitting in the same room maybe 4 feet away from each other and posting this on their face book page🫤

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SW-User

@Lanie78
I’ll think over what you are saying.
Probably this site is not for me.
Thank you for your comments.

I’ll read a book with Living with Loneliness instead. And why others force you into it.

Lanie78 · 41-45, F

@SW-User What you do here is entirely up to you. However if you're now questioning yourself, then maybe you need to be honest as to the reasons why you're actually here in the first place. Loneliness is horrible, escapism is fine. However, life is to short to "make do" or pretend everything is fine in a relationship you're no longer happy in.
We all deserve happiness. Just be true to yourself and your partner if they're the reason you're here in the first place.

SW-User

@Lanie78 not convinced escapism is fine.

I’ve been married over thirty years this time. That is not a problem.

Do I need social media, not at all.
Came on out of curiosity.

Support groups are useful in a crisis. I was a carer in my previous life.

I’ve said too much.

Gangstress · 41-45, F

I joined ep one day as i was struggling with depression, i then told my gf that i found this site that had relatable stories of depression,anxiety etc
She then joined soon after
Im completely transparent with everything as she is.
No secrets, no secret friends
Just honesty

Lanie78 · 41-45, F

@Gangstress Best way to be!

SteelHands · 61-69, M

Neither me or her had anything to do with social media or pervy crap on the web. We split up because of her susceptibility to lubtards at her jobs, and boitoy little bishes makin bets who could peel off her jeans, until she wound up with someone as apparently disloyal as herself.

ServantOfTheGoddess · 61-69, M

Things aren't that cut and dried. My marriage is better because of the time I spend on line with my SW Mistress 🥰, whom my beautiful wife knows nothing about.

Lanie78 · 41-45, F

@ServantOfTheGoddess Ah one of the deceitful ones. What if your wife found out? 🤔

PrincessRoarBuddy · F

[big][u][b]I am honest.

And if I had a MR/the one I would be honest with HIM..

I would LOVE and WANT HIM to be HONEST with me! And if he lies well I need to think about things and or if it would be bye bye [/b][/u][/big]

Rhonda · F

Yes the only time i did lie is when i had sonething planned for a surprise and had to.

SW-User

Interest my this question comes from a woman, not a man.

Elanor · F

Ppl are allowed their personal privacy and an outlet for expressing themselves … ultimately relationships aren’t just black n white

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Elanor · F

Well as adults we can make choices that can make or break us , none of us are without sin … we all have desires even thinking it is cheating if it’s dissected and pulled apart enough

@Lanie78

Lanie78 · 41-45, F

@Elanor What could be considered harmless fun to one party could potentially make the other question everything they've ever known about the relationship.
All relationships need trust, honesty and communication. Without it it's not healthy.

Elanor · F

Trust … exactly 😌@Lanie78

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