Why do some people get married and have kids and some don't?

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SW-User

I wonder why people insist on asking those without kids *why* they don't have them. It's an extremely personal issue, and it amazes me that anyone has the gall to stick their nose into what is essentially no one else's business. I don't remember ever hearing anyone asking childed people why they had so many... 😈

Snuffy1957 · 61-69, M

@SW-User I couldn't agree with you more! Except for one time I asked my grandmother why she had 9 kids lol

SW-User

@Snuffy1957 Nine kids? Literally?? Merciful heavens. So... did she answer you?

WonderGirl1

@Snuffy1957 I have no children. I rarely get asked that. I think I think I don't look like a mother type.

Snuffy1957 · 61-69, M

@SW-User Yes Literally 9 kids...
Yes.. Your Grandfather was a horny old bastard lol

Snuffy1957 · 61-69, M

@WonderGirl1 You are a female... in my opinion a very beautiful female and that makes you look like a mother type🤗😘

WonderGirl1

@Snuffy1957 I'm a cat mother. :)

WonderGirl1

@Snuffy1957 Thank you. 🤗

SW-User

@Snuffy1957 Too funny!

Snuffy1957 · 61-69, M

@WonderGirl1 Nothing wrong with that!

Snuffy1957 · 61-69, M

@WonderGirl1 You are very welcome 🤗😘😍

Snuffy1957 · 61-69, M

@SW-User I thought so... sadly she also said the only happy thing about her marriage was her kids... And now her grandkids :-)

SW-User

@Snuffy1957 I have heard that same thing from so many women.

WonderGirl1

@SW-User I'm an only child. My mother told me I was more than enough.

Snuffy1957 · 61-69, M

@SW-User sad people go through their whole married life and not be happy :(

SW-User

@WonderGirl1 You and I have much in common!

Snuffy1957 · 61-69, M

@SW-User You must be beautiful too ? 😍

SW-User

@Snuffy1957 Ha! I wish... I may be maternal looking though.

Snuffy1957 · 61-69, M

@SW-User That look can be beautiful 😊

SW-User

@Snuffy1957 Except that if you believe what they say, they are happy with the children, which in some cases, was the only reason for the marriage to begin with.