Why do some married men say they are either divorced or widowed?

I think they are narcissists who get their high by using others to their own satisfaction. Just a thought. What do you think? Also, when you hear a guy saying that he "hates cheaters" be careful! They are usually the biggest cheaters you can find.

Another narc's favorite is to play the religious type. Don't buy it.

Sorry, but that is the truth. Some guys here just want to play with your vulnerabilities and some women also. Love yourself and forget about these types.