Have you ever?

Shown someone too much kindness and forgave too much of their selfish behavior in your friendship? Then one day you realize you are hurting yourself masochisticly, because you don't value your own heart and feelings? You have to value what you give and have lines on what you'll except in any relationship.

This is such a hard one for me. I take after my mom. I need to stop hurting myself through my tolerate of other people I care for hurting me. This is part of my story.. my personal journey.. all my true friends know who they are, and I will always be grateful for what you habe given me.❤️

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Iwillwait · M

Yes, I finally walked away, without another word spoken.

Eclipsed · M

@Iwillwait good for you.. ever regret it? Like maybe you should have tried to work it out?

Iwillwait · M

@Eclipsed I only regret not leaving sooner.

Eclipsed · M

@Iwillwait wow.. interesting. I need more of this in my life I think.

Iwillwait · M

@Eclipsed We all do. The dysfunctional co-dependent abusive relationships should be halted abruptly before significant damage is realized. It was too late for me and I was brutally scarred.