Have you ever?

Shown someone too much kindness and forgave too much of their selfish behavior in your friendship? Then one day you realize you are hurting yourself masochisticly, because you don't value your own heart and feelings? You have to value what you give and have lines on what you'll except in any relationship.

This is such a hard one for me. I take after my mom. I need to stop hurting myself through my tolerate of other people I care for hurting me. This is part of my story.. my personal journey.. all my true friends know who they are, and I will always be grateful for what you habe given me.❤️

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Trippy · F

I choose to never believe in too much kindness...nor forgiveness. It's only when we measure it as an amount of the past does it accumulate. Ask yourself...Right now this moment what other thoughts are in my head? If they involve negativity from the past then that's where you are. Eliminate those whom evoke it.

Eclipsed · M

@Trippy facts.. you always present psychological facts. Thank you!

One of my bad behaviors amoung others, is I put people on pedestals and that puts pressure on them because they don't want to disappoint or feel that can't reciprocate to that degree. I know I've sometimes made this mistake with you. I'm sorry.

Trippy · F

@Eclipsed You my friend owe me no apologies. I seek none. ❤️

Eclipsed · M

@Trippy always ❤️