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Have you ever?

Shown someone too much kindness and forgave too much of their selfish behavior in your friendship? Then one day you realize you are hurting yourself masochisticly, because you don't value your own heart and feelings? You have to value what you give and have lines on what you'll except in any relationship.

This is such a hard one for me. I take after my mom. I need to stop hurting myself through my tolerate of other people I care for hurting me. This is part of my story.. my personal journey.. all my true friends know who they are, and I will always be grateful for what you habe given me.❤️
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SW-User
I do it often. It's probably why I feel shitty today tbh
Eclipsed · M
@SW-User I'm so sorry. Really.. very sorry.
SW-User
@Eclipsed It's always been the way. I learned to be a walkover at a young age and its stuck.
Eclipsed · M
@SW-User yeah.. you think it is learned behavior from childhood or just something that happened later?
SW-User
@Eclipsed Trying to do the right thing and getting it wrong from fear of abandonment
Eclipsed · M
@SW-User I know this feeling.
SW-User
@Eclipsed I try to get out of it. I recognise me doing the same things and I cant always stop. Maybe I should stop caring.