How would you feel?

If someone you deeply loved asked you not to talk to certain people you were already friends with? Has that ever happened to you? Tell me about your experiences. Even if you were the person asking them not to interact with them?

It happened to me once.. I'm ashamed to say I gave in to make her happy. Though the people I stopped taking to I wasn't really friends with anyway, so it was relatively easy. She was just threatened by them for whatever reason. I am not sure what I would have done had they been genuine friends. I would like to think then I would not have capitulated.. but I was so in love I can't be certain I would have stood my ground.

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Nadie

I'm the person who tells my boyfriend not to talk to someone. It's his girl friend that he "had" feelings for. She actually had feelings for him too. Did he listen to me though? No. They still talk to this day and were about to hang out for his birthday. 😒

Eclipsed · M

@Nadie honestly.. it is dangerous. The only time I ever cheated was with an ex.. she knew all my turn ons and buttons.. she played me so easily.. I felt like I lost control of myself. It was a low moment for me. Thanks for your story.

Benjr134 · M

@Nadie That’s one of the few instances where I would understand it.