Do you always hold space for those hurting ? Is it the ones that cry out the loudest get the most support ?

The ones that worry me most are usually more quiet they might say less, not wanting to take up your time and then you hear their story. Often those with comparatively minor issues demand more. In my experience anyways.

Hm I'm more selective. It depends on what I sense, if it's genuine or for attention or drama. I tend to think the quiet ones hurt deeper, suffering in silence. Or maybe they just don't know how to express it.

I try to be supportive.

Sometimes its the ones who you can tell silently hurting that need the most support

I've had to learn to be very selective. I'm the type who wants to save everybody, but I also learned that a drowning person will take you down with them.

Sometimes people hurt so damn bad, they can’t bear to talk about it.