Free advice…no really

@AntisocialTroll no, keep it as realistic as possible.
Also, call law enforcement if someone is causing an issue.

@SW-User Been there, done that. The police told me they will not investigate him for anything less than violence as he's "too difficult to catch out" and they don't have the resources. They also said he's done this to multiple neighbours in every property he's ever lived in!

He has NPD, OCPD, ASPD and SPD! The illnesses were confirmed to me by a different source that would know for a fact what is wrong with him.

The police advice was, "if you aren't capable of beating this man down with your bare hands alone, you will have to move". That was 3/4 years ago and I'm still trying and failing to get rehoused...

@AntisocialTroll he isn’t checked on by any agency? No medications?

Just out, being a menace?

@SW-User Exactly that, he doesn't believe there is anything wrong with him but he still uses his PD's as mitigation when he's had up in court for something.

@AntisocialTroll 🤦🏻‍♂️

@SW-User He's an absolute nightmare, in the five and a half years I've lived here he's behaved like a normal person for 22 days in total, he once went 10 days without harassing me and there have been 3x4 days he's behaved, each of these occasions have been because he thought he was gonna get caught out.

@AntisocialTroll can you have pepper spray?

@SW-User Nope, he's not dumb enough to attack me from the front, if he ever assaults me it will be from behind, he's that type but frankly he's quite content to be harassing me to death behind closed doors, it's his "thing", like I said he's been doing this his whole life.

His Mam is still alive, if he is ever going to turn from harassment to something else I believe it will be when she dies. He's only a year younger than me so she's gotta be in her mid 70's at least.

@AntisocialTroll A man baby..

can I send you some pepper spray as a gift?

@AntisocialTroll It would be so crazy if some stranger flew out there from nowhere and had a little chat with this guy. Too bad I'm cashpoor atm. :(

For now, you'll need to find someone else to handcuff him to something immovable in his apartment, and let him stew in his fear and depression.

I doubt anyone would even check on him.

@SW-User Nope, illegal in the UK, cheers for the offer!
@SnailTeeth That's not really my way and he'd still bang on the floor with his feet lol, he's a horror. I used to wish for him to be offered such great housing elsewhere that he'd just go, it's changed me, now I wish he'd get run over by a bus and it's really not me so I even feel bad for having the thoughts I do. It's really crap.

@AntisocialTroll how about a large dog?

@SW-User I'm disabled I don't get enough money for a pet and I wouldn't be able to walk a dog anyway, I'm currently in a 1st floor flat and haven't been well enough to do the stairs for over a month now.

@AntisocialTroll I'm sorry he's wearing you down.
I hate how that stress takes it's toll.
I've been through people like that so many times, that anger is now just my default reaction to that behavior. That abuse is outrageous to me.
I think you're right though. Some people never have anything good in their lives, or not good enough to know true loss, or appreciate the pain of others. So maybe wishing him the best isn't the worst thing.
Even still, it's not like I'd leave him handcuffed there for more than 72 hours. (I'd feel terrible if he died)
Just long enough for him to think about things.
I don't think his mother dying will fix things, that'll probably just send him deeper over the edge.
If they can keep Bronson locked away for decades, why can't they do it to this clown?
Lock them away until they calm down.
For their safety, and the safety of others.

@SnailTeeth You've misunderstood, I think he will switch from harassment to something worse when his mother dies.

I'd love to get him locked up before he starts acting out to the extent he's violent but as the police refuse to investigate him unless he's actually violent towards me there is nothing I can do. He easily meets the threshold for criminal harassment but they don't want to know, they consider investigating him "too difficult" and told me I wouldn't be able to take it if they did as it'd make him worse.

@AntisocialTroll I used to have a couple guys like that in my neighborhood, and I'm ashamed of the evil retaliatory plots that went through my mind.
It's so unfair they can't let you live in peace. I hate people like that.
The police aren't wrong. There was a time when they'd take someone like that out for a drive and smarten them up, but sometimes that just makes them worse.

It would be funny if you could get someone to befriend him to the point where they can just "abduct" him, and leave him out in a pub on the other side of the country where he can walk all the way back home. At least it would buy you some peace. It would be even funnier if you could get more people to keep doing this to him, but not only that, keep coming back and asking him to go for a drink with them (after leaving him stranded). Until he can't stand all the friendly strangers visiting him and mocking him.

@SnailTeeth He mostly befriends those he can use in some way to "help" him with his harassment.

Junkies and alkies are his favourite friends as they are far easier to manipulate.

He doesn't really have friends in the normal sense of the word, they are all situational.

@AntisocialTroll That's a typical narcissist for you, uses and abuses everyone, keeps cronies around.

The key is to not react. Be boring, Be a stone.

If he can't get any reaction from you, he'll lose interest.

Still though, it's fucking terrifying.

@SnailTeeth My reactions make zero difference. I legit think I must look similar to his mother.

But he doesn't stop unless he's evicted and I can't get the evidence I need for that, he's too clever, too experienced at what he does, he's had a lifetime of perfecting what he does and he's damn good at it!

@AntisocialTroll Do you think someone could send you a small wide-angle camera/microphone to put over your door? That would give you more evidence (is that admissable out there?).

@SnailTeeth I'll PM you, this is too much info to be public...