I Enjoy Helping Others

That's nice, but not all people accept help from others, because their ego thing doesn't let. They tend to think that others are pretending at being good, when in reality they do have problems themselves, yet they try to help others. What do you think, shouldn't people cope with their own problems first and only then help others? I know there will always be obstacles, that people will have to overcome eventually, but that's what I'm thinking. Maybe one should just simply give them a direction, where one should go, instead of depending on that persons help.