I Am Fascinated By Human Behavior

I understand that I'm the shy person and maybe some people think that bc I'm not talkative, I'm a good listener.
I understand you have lots of things to share but let me...let's say...a second? To breath.

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tynamite · 31-35, M

My friend says that listening is contributing to the conversation. I disagree.

MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M

@tynamite: I believe it does. I love listening but I'm also a good talker, and when someone listens to me I feel loved, and when I listen to someone they feel loved.

twistermind · 51-55, F

@tynamite: I think you friend is right. If there isn't a person listening to you, communication doesn't exist.
My complain is about people I meet and it's all about them. I can't handle them.

tynamite · 31-35, M

@MartinTheFirst: @twistermind: You're just saying that because you're not a talkative person. What's the point of talking to someone who doesn't contribute much words to the conversation? I might as well talk to a brick wall.

twistermind · 51-55, F

@tynamite: lol! Look at it the other way. You also want to take a lead role.
Really, I think it's a question of balace. Again, I'm talking about people, how the man I have just meet, who talks and talks and talks...it's like a tornado.