after 15 years of silence, i volunteered to meet people in church parking lot with umbrella and act as doorman

suddenly im THE most popular man with everyone. and getting a few chats and hugs from the women. up until now it was a struggle to get a grunt or hello from anyone.

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DareToSayIT · M

Have a great time. Kindness shows up in different ways, so look for whatever version resonates with you. I’m not religious myself, but I find that being around these gatherings lets me see a warm, communal side of people I don't normally catch.

On the top of that you are obviously doing something right to become that most popular man. You just needed the right people to see it.

EldritchFox

Unfortunately people usually need something from you before they realize you are a person too.

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frugalhermit · 61-69, M

@Therealsteve go back and read my post very slowly. until now i was totally ignored

Therealsteve · 31-35, M

@frugalhermit Yes, I read all of that successfully. And from the variables of the degree to which you were previously ignored, and the reception you now receive - what point are you trying to extrapolate and articulate from those trends?

frugalhermit · 61-69, M

@Therealsteve wow!! you must be the scrabble king!! ive nothing else to add bye

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