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I am a bit.
I found it a little sad that all the women on my mom's side of the family had been servants/maids before getting married. All lived in extreme poverty for a portion of their lives.
And, in looking into my ancestry, on my mother's side, every other generation lost their mother. My mom lost hers, so I didn't. But, if the pattern had stuck, My children should have lost me when they were quite small, or one of my two cousins should have lost a wife. But this hasn't happened and is the first in many generations.
I found it a little sad that all the women on my mom's side of the family had been servants/maids before getting married. All lived in extreme poverty for a portion of their lives.
And, in looking into my ancestry, on my mother's side, every other generation lost their mother. My mom lost hers, so I didn't. But, if the pattern had stuck, My children should have lost me when they were quite small, or one of my two cousins should have lost a wife. But this hasn't happened and is the first in many generations.