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What's the point of going out of your way in order to do the right thing in a world that doesn't give a damn?

Outside of self-image, hardly anyone makes any real effort to do the right thing - not when it's inconvenient or hard. The few people who actually put in real effort to do the right thing (and haven't had that effort beaten out of them by the world's ugly and unsupportive reactions to such aberrant behavior) are such utter outliers that their efforts rarely amount to anything. And on the rare occasions where their efforts actually accomplish something - it just ends up being a briefly lit match in the dark. Noticeable and seemingly important, sometimes even heartwarming or holy. And yet, what it amounts to is complete pointlessness in the bigger picture. I hate it so much, so I honestly want to know. I'm desperate to know - what reason can you come up with for doing the right thing anyway?
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The bigger picture?

I think it all comes down to faith.

Whether you believe in God and an afterlife. Judgement day.

If you do then your actions today, be it little or hard, matters.

All a matter of choice.

But we have to WANT to do it not just do it.

Something I have to constantly remind myself.
BlueDiver · 36-40, M
And what if you didn't believe in God or an afterlife, or any other source of deep faith - would you still have a reason to do the right thing?
@BlueDiver: Does it not feel good? 😊

Do you feel guilty when you don't?

Don't think of what others think.

Don't think of how hard it is.

and just do it.

But only if you want to. 😊
BlueDiver · 36-40, M
It pretty much never feels good, no. And if anything, I feel guilty for doing the right thing more often than I feel guilty for doing the wrong thing. I'm a humanist - I only care about matters of ethics and religion and spirituality insofar as they directly effect the lives of human beings, both myself and others, so the only way for me to want to do the right thing is if I have a reason - a reason based on it actually helping myself and/or others to an extent that makes any actual difference.