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friedchickenwing · 26-30, F
I get that feeling sometimes irl "if I were white you wouldn't have acted that way". So I do think it's a possibility.
I personally am more comfortable with other minorities because my mum makes everything about race to the point where it's real demeaning towards me (if someone likes me, hates me, thinks I'm attractive/unattractive, was mean to me it must be 'b/c' of my race). So I grew up feeling apprehensive around some white people because I felt they didn't see me as a person. And it makes me uncomfortable to see an attractive white person even today b/c I feel like they'll always be considered more attractive than me because of the eurocentric standards we have.
I personally am more comfortable with other minorities because my mum makes everything about race to the point where it's real demeaning towards me (if someone likes me, hates me, thinks I'm attractive/unattractive, was mean to me it must be 'b/c' of my race). So I grew up feeling apprehensive around some white people because I felt they didn't see me as a person. And it makes me uncomfortable to see an attractive white person even today b/c I feel like they'll always be considered more attractive than me because of the eurocentric standards we have.