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Is it bad that I kinda dislike good things happening to people I know?

I get really jealous when my friends have good luck and stuff and kinda wish bad things would happen.
BritishPerson · 41-45, M
It is only human to wish it was you who had the luck. However, you should really try to be happy for someone when they experience good fortune. I can sort of relate. I would really love to win a few million pounds on the National Lottery and when I see someone has won such an amount, I can't help wishing it had been me. At the same time though I don't begrudge the person who has won. I would be happy for them and congratulate them if I knew them.
SW-User
The post shouldn't be categorised as Doing good 🤣.


It's more like being Evil.
crushedstrawberriess · 22-25, F
They're not your friends if you wish bad on them
revenant · F
I would quit being your friend
Strongtea · 22-25, M
Yeah that’s fucked up and selfish
Yes its bad of you.. you should be happy for them and not a resentful hater.. what kinda friend are you?
Strongtea · 22-25, M
Honestly it just seems that everything goes right for them and wrong for me and I just want them to see how it feels.@SStarfish
Unlearn · 41-45, M
Yes. Focusing on oneself Is better... everyone is on a separate journey. Doesn't make sense to compare.
Yes that is bad.
@Strongtea No that's fucked up. It's ok to feel bad about that but wishing for bad things to happen to friends and feeling jealous is nothing but fucked up it's as simple as that. You need to fix that.
Strongtea · 22-25, M
Maybe I just wish that the stuff that’s happened to me would just happen to other people I know so they could see what it feels like.@Adrift
Strongtea · 22-25, M
Oh ok, i’ll try.@PiecingBabyFaceTogether
Strongtea · 22-25, M
Oh, great. 🙁@Whodunnit
Whodunnit · M
@Strongtea Sorry. I just think as a friend you should be pleased for their good fortune.

 
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