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twistermind · 51-55, F
I can't figure out that a person could be friend with someone only because this person can help you.
As you mentioned, she has trust issues and surely you are not gonna help her being near her if you only wants her for your convenience.
Perhaps, I'm being rude but this is my feeling if I understood well your post.
Not sure if I'm missing something because it is also possible that you feel as she is also using you.
As you mentioned, she has trust issues and surely you are not gonna help her being near her if you only wants her for your convenience.
Perhaps, I'm being rude but this is my feeling if I understood well your post.
Not sure if I'm missing something because it is also possible that you feel as she is also using you.
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twistermind · 51-55, F
@TheNewMan: I knew I was missing something. You seemed upset with her.
She has trust issues and perhaps she also has abandonmen issues so it's possible that she is avoiding to be engaged with you so she won't be hurt.
It's a tough situation I know.
She has trust issues and perhaps she also has abandonmen issues so it's possible that she is avoiding to be engaged with you so she won't be hurt.
It's a tough situation I know.
ItsGonnaBeOk · 26-30, M
i always had a bad luck with women, hopefully the next women i fall for is nice and normal and not engaged.
twistermind · 51-55, F
@TheNewMan: You're young. You will find the right one for you. :-)
I know you feel now disappointed. It's normal. Be patience and you will understand your friend a little better with a little of time. There's no reason for yoy both to stop friendship. Love is very valuable but friendhip is also.
I know you feel now disappointed. It's normal. Be patience and you will understand your friend a little better with a little of time. There's no reason for yoy both to stop friendship. Love is very valuable but friendhip is also.
SW-User
Yes, not exactly need but I'm cordial with many annoying jerks only because I might need to network with them in the future
alterlife · 26-30, F
she has trust issues because you're clearly not worth trusting. you're using her.
ItsGonnaBeOk · 26-30, M
i dont need to justify my self to you
InOtterWords · F
Well seems to me she's right to have trust issues
ItsGonnaBeOk · 26-30, M
there were some moments where i thought i love her, now i am just upset that she doesn't have any slight feelings for me and i am her first and closest friend.
InOtterWords · F
@TheNewMan: then why talk of using her?
Maybe you should have an open and honest conversation with her
Maybe you should have an open and honest conversation with her
ItsGonnaBeOk · 26-30, M
she is self shut kinda person every time i try to have deep conversation she always escapes and changes the subject she wants to keep everything as shallow as possible.
sometimes she gets mad she thinks i dont trust her she thinks i dont believe her, i tired of it
sometimes she gets mad she thinks i dont trust her she thinks i dont believe her, i tired of it