Would you date a girl that worked out?

Why would her being in shape make you think she would be shallow?

That's a shallow way of thinking.

@Silverfox420: being in shape is one thing. Being ripped is far different. Requires much attention and focus.

@abe182: True, but what about that means she must be shallow? I've been studying martial arts and taekwondo since I was 7 years old. I love it; it is a way of life now. Being in shape is just a side effect of that. But yes, there is a lot of focus on perfecting different aspects of the art. You're saying that is a bad thing?

And someone that can do that shouldn't be looked down on. Its excellent for your mental health. Knowing that I can protect myself after what I've been through gives me a feeling of safety. It makes my life livable. I am very focused on enjoying my life.

@sarabee1995: okay then I would date you. You don't seem like a narcissist and I didn't mean to generalize. I ripped girl I do find attractive.I was just stating some thoughts that would make me reconsider. Surely you know women who are similar to what I was referring to.

@Silverfox420: I'll change my mind. It all really depends on the individual. Nothing at all with the physique. I'm a fan of women being a little ripped. Of course I would date one. I merely stated my precautions is all.

@abe182: I know shallow women who are in shape and I know shallow women who are not in shape. Same with guys.

What I don't see is any correlation between being in shape and being shallow, but if anything I think they are inversely related.

So true. I simply hate seeing the negativity towards anyones passion and hard work. Of all the things to label, healthy shouldn't be looked down on.

@sarabee1995: okay I think you won this one. I'll agree with you shallowness comes in all forms and there's no correlation. I just don't know any girls who are ripped personally so forgive me.

@Silverfox420: don't take what I said personally. You asked a question and I states my inhibitions. You have changed my mind. Don't be upset please.

Not at all. No worries lol

@abe182: No problem. Sorry if I seemed to come at you too harsh.

@Silverfox420: @sarabee1995:
No problem girls ☺