is this manipulation? how should i respond here. im done too.

Do not respond! Block!!

Let him know that the blame speaks for itself. I dunno if you caused it or he caused it or both but he shouldn't advocate to be absolved unless he objectively is right

I would cut it off here if he really considers separation this heavily and encourages it. He's ready for it and you are too. Leave him

I’d stop responding

My advice: ignore

shes obviously manipulating you, feeling scared that your leaving

it is a crude attempt at keeping connected
silence is the only answer

Hey, they opened the door, i say you walk through it.

Dunno, too little to go on ... enjoy the day 😎

She's giving you at out. Take it and go.