Am i in the wrong?

Me & my husband been married for 3 & a half years, together for 6 years... I've seen that when we are with his family I defo take the effort to take interest in them & put him 1st... he has done the same to me but to an extent... he'll happily walk away & play his video games etc... we actually lived apart for 18 months & during that time I wud stil visit his family & hang out... when my family & friends & family visit he does get involved but will walk away when opportunity arises... to be honest he will take any opportunity to leave... when his friends & family are visiting I put in effort too. The place where we live, I bought the property b4 we even started dating & after we dated & got married I struggled to say it was our home as opposed to our home but I wanted him to feel at home... but now it's to the point he invites ppl to the house without mentioning it... I'm not saying he needs permission but at least say 'oh this person is coming round' yes its his home but it's my home too... it's my private space.. one of his best mates is getting married in a few weeks (couple in question came to our wedding) & he initially said 'oh I'm being invited but not u because they have limited money but one of the brides will be staying at our apartment to have her hen do... we wud appreciate if we had our alone time because we get each other on mental health issues so u can do ur own thing' am I supposed to be ok with that?? Ok the bride in question, she's here this weekend & last night her, my hubby & his other best mate completely took over the apartment... I had to confine myself to my bedroom & my husband said I was in the wrong for secludeing myself... I tried to get involved but they kept ignoring me... in my own home!!!

All my husband can say... 'yes u need to sort yourself out' I don't appreciate being told what to do in my own home...