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JP1119 · 36-40, M
@SW-User Oh yeah, I’m in a pattern of doing it for a few months, then getting discouraged and not checking my profiles for a few months, then trying again. Probably upwards of 95% of the women I message never even reply to me. I’ve had not a lot but several likes and messages from women that don’t interest me at all.
That’s kind of how it is with me in real life, too. I’ve been interested in dating lots of different women over the years, and none of them will even go on a date with me. Then a few women over the years have indicated one way or another that they’re interested in dating me; they’ve all been nice women, nothing wrong with them, but I’m really not attracted to them. And I feel bad for not being attracted to them.
My parents and at least one of my friends think I need to spend more time with the women that have been attracted to me. I guess I’m not strongly opposed to that, but I don’t really know what I’d like to do with them. I guess I don’t really know what I’d like to do with a hypothetical girlfriend that I was really attracted to if I actually had one either.
That’s kind of how it is with me in real life, too. I’ve been interested in dating lots of different women over the years, and none of them will even go on a date with me. Then a few women over the years have indicated one way or another that they’re interested in dating me; they’ve all been nice women, nothing wrong with them, but I’m really not attracted to them. And I feel bad for not being attracted to them.
My parents and at least one of my friends think I need to spend more time with the women that have been attracted to me. I guess I’m not strongly opposed to that, but I don’t really know what I’d like to do with them. I guess I don’t really know what I’d like to do with a hypothetical girlfriend that I was really attracted to if I actually had one either.