Are you more concerned with the why or with the what?

@TopCat Spoken like a young man looking for answers. Some time you do give that up, and look upon what you would do for someone you love, instead of ... why

@SW-User you're assuming that I wouldn't do things without knowing the why. That's not the case, I would do things for people without knowing the why, simply because it seemed the right thing to do

@TopCat No I didnt imply other than if you take suggestion of once being in your shoes as. I think you are fine and will make the decisions in life you need

@SW-User thank you :)

@TopCat With kind welcome, but someday I hope common hope needs no thanks.

@SW-User indeed, but in the current climate a thank you can go a long way. Also just good manners :)

@TopCat You're kind, my words expressed that.

Thank you glad @SW-User you seem wise *bows slightly* I try to be but I do feel I do more harm than good