There's a difference between offering to help and naively sticking one's nose in without having all the details.

In life, it is a bit more obvious to determine the veracity of a situation. In the anonymous universe of virtual social networks, it's not as obvious.

You posted a question asking for perspective. I am not the only one to offer a response like mine.

You have clearly made up your own mind, and evidently, you've made assessments about me as well.

Far be it from me to instruct you, but it's curious that you would ask for advice only to ignore it.

@KatieKatze

I would have ignored the situation had I not been involved. If you have not been cheated on, or been a part of an unfaithful relationship, I'm not sure you could fully understand the situation. I've said again and again that I understand where you are coming from, and all you have to say is that it's a pointless ambition. I do not care if the woman on the other end isn't "real," or if it's just one big game. If you ignored everyone going through a tough situation, like this, because of some fear that they're fake, you'd pass up on those who may really need help.

@KatieKatze go watch the Friends episode where Joey catches his uncle cheating.

Yes. It’s a sitcom, but stuff like that happens all the time.

Not all cheaters are terrible human beings and not all cheating victims are naive and innocent.

In your own words, you stated that this is none of your business. So, I am curious why you feel the need to insert yourself into something with hardly any information