How does it feels when you are desperately asking help from people but they give you a long preach instead of helping hand ?

@Fernie let's take example.. money, and well.. it's emergency so i ask everyone i know

@YukikoAmagi have you asked them for money before? There can be so much more to this story. If everyone turns you down...there is a reason and most likely a valid one. The preaching thing...there is a reason for that as well.

@Fernie it's not me. It's my neighbor, i saw him angry this evening, he shout that he need help and people not lending him a hand but preaching him instead. He looks very upset

@YukikoAmagi So, you really do NOT know the actual truth...you have no clue why people turn him down...if everyone says no....he has burned his bridges. You really should not be involved since you do not have all the facts...you just see and hear his anger....only his side of the story