To those who are married or in a committed relationship, especially if you really do care about your significant other....

I don't think you need to worry.
I don't recall if I cheated in my dreams.
It is very difficult to control desires while you sleep. It doesn't hurt to pray for answers though. God is gracious.

I have only thought of 3 people. In the 20 years Ive been with my husband....The last time I did it was the cause of my last schizophrenic relapse so never again, I wouldnt even dream of it

Its completely normal and most likely good for you. It is unrealistic to have only thoughts for one person. It doesn't mean you don't love him it just means you are normal.

Yes, many times! Does that make me a bad person? I don't know and don't care.

Have not acted on them. Never will.

I sometimes wish I could be with my crush. But I know I'd never be the same afterwards. It wouldn't be worth it. I do imagine meeting him for a coffee!

Everyone has thoughts, they aren't [i]impure[/i] because you haven't acted on them.

I cheated in my dreams when I was with my ex. Hasn't happened in my current relationship

No. I did not even when I was and now, when am not. It is all about how one is wired.

The better question is which one hasn't and yet no one would answer.

Many times while I was married but I'd never act on them.

No ive never done that

my boyfriend is my impure fantasies