@ZenKitzune What if the kid, at four or five years old, shit on your floor and dumped glitter everywhere? (this actually happened with the kid of my mom's friend)
@GentlyWithAChainsaw when you have kids you'll understand that kids do stuff like that sometimes I'm afraid. My nephew has adhd and is a real handful but I wouldn't make my sister feel bad by saying something like "I don't like your kid".