what do you usually get compliments on ??

I don't. I used to get complements on all kinds of things. But those things were nothing more than exercises in survival, and didn't have a thing to do with living. As I've shifted form living out of my survival identity to living on a path aligning me with my authentic life, I no longer practice those things on which I was complemented. These days, I do nothing. So, I receive no complements from anyone about anything.