What’s Your Biggest Challenge In Life? The Thing You Find The Hardest To Deal With Or Get Over?

@YoMomma oh I hear you sister! My husbands interests and my own apart from music are so diverse..

@Primnproper the problem is he spends all his money on it which used to make me mad but now I've just accepted it 😬 maybe if i put more effort into things myself then he’ll bother eventually to do the same (help me achieve my goals/dreams idk) 😬 maybe i have to do it myself somehow 😳

@YoMomma Yes I just concentrated and what I enjoyed doing whether it was my crochet, baking or reading . I buy my own bits for what I enjoy I don’t ask him for money. I act interested when he buys his new toys normally music related as in instruments or boxes that do all sorts of changes to music. Lol

@Primnproper oh he spends all his time and money watching tv and on food 🤐 i never ask him for money.. what i want is beyond our means anyway 😐 i’m more the miser of the two of us i have access of all his accounts but i hate spending money .. we have a lot of bills to keep up with for now 🤐 i guess i have to find my own occupation to make an income otherwise we will just be stuck like this 😬 it’s a bit maddening 😳

@YoMomma I think ultimately we have to decide if we’re happy with how things are and if not it’s not going to change unless there is a discussion. Food is a big issue with my husband and I because he gets down about his weight but won’t compromise on the bad stuff he wants to eat. I’m a diabetic so have learnt much better control because I’ve had to.

@Primnproper my hub is diabetic and 400 lbs but refuses to eat healthy 😐 i give up trying to argue with him 😳

@YoMomma I’m very concerned for my husbands health but until he’s ready to face it I’ve learnt there’s no point.

@Primnproper yeah people do what they want no matter 😳 i guess 😬 ay

@YoMomma Unfortunately so. If my hubby got diagnosed as diabetic he would be gutted. It still doesn’t spur him to do anything about it.

@Primnproper i guess i could put more effort into cooking healthy stuff, I've been being lazy about cooking so he's just been eating junk food 😳 the problem is i like health foods and he’s like eww no so its like pointless to cook things i like because he refuses to eat anything he’s not into 😳 it’s maddening

@YoMomma I tried doing healthy options and adapting his foods so they were less fattening but he flatly refused to do it.

@Primnproper yeah i wish he’d eat healthier even if he doesn't want to .. maybe i should fight him more on it instead of letting him go down a bad road health wise 😳😬

@YoMomma I even tried refusing to buy in the bad stuff my hubby eats and he definitely wasn’t having any of that. lol

@Primnproper yeah i went back to sleep.. we had donuts and coffee for breakfast 😅

@YoMomma 👍 I'm so jealous! 😂