The groomers..call them whatever you want ... love to prey on the ones who are the most vunerable

Oh yes, the listening ear is often the way in. Let me listen to your problems for about a week or so and then let's talk about what you're wearing 🙄

If you are vulnerable or a hurt in anyway don't put information up that they can use against you.
Wasn't even a groomer but some pr*ck who I was having a discussion with looked through my posts and found out about my break up to try and use it against me. I did the same to him and saw him off but I've got quite a thick skin so somebody like that isn't going to get the better of me.

You're right. They know how to prey on

And those who are very young...

Yes, it's really unsettling