What Event Changed Your Perspective On Life?

My paternal grandmother and uncle heinously betraying me over money, then lying to the entire family about it. I just recently found out my aunt's second husband used his law enforcement connections to get the police record over what happened, read how the cops cleared me, tried clearing my name with the family, and was forced out himself. My grandmother croaked last january at the age of 96, and didn't even bother trying to reach out to ask for forgiveness while dying of cancer.