If Your Partner Wanted To Spice Things Up In The Bedroom, What Would Scare You The Most?

@SandWitch not up for that?

@Primnproper
I guess I just don't see the point of it.

@SandWitch that’s fair enough. It can be fun sometimes.

@Primnproper
To be fair, I've never actually tried role playing with someone because that option simply never came up in conversation. And even if it did come up, I'm not sure what role I'd be expected to play-out or how that would even work. Any suggestions?

@SandWitch well could be the standard sexy secretary, schoolgirl ( controversial nowadays to some) cheerleader. Burlesque dancer/stripper. They can be fun

@Primnproper
You touched on something I never thought of... dancer/stripper. For several years now, I've been involved with low-impact gymnastics and aerobic dancing. In the implementation of aerobic dancing, a vertically mounted pole is used to train the body to maintain vertical posture throughout a dance routine, which is technically called 'pole dancing'.

I have a mini-gym set up in my condo complete with a vertical pole, except the pole is a 10 foot piece of rock-solid bamboo secured top and bottom and not a brass pole. It does the same job as brass and bamboo is stronger than it looks.

When I do my aerobics pole-dance routine when my guy-friend is there waiting and watching, he gets turned on easily as I work alone at my routine in my mini-gym in front of him. I suppose that is role playing, but I never gave it credit for that until now.

@SandWitch see your partner would love that. Something different to try.

@Primnproper
That could explain a lot actually!

@SandWitch 👍