What’s Your Most Important Question About Life?

@HumanEarth there is a lot of guys in the world and even on here that have your attraction to dolly-ing up. I hope you connect with them and learn from each other . sorry about your eplisepsy--that sounds really rough

Except I don't doll up as you put it

I dress like a regular woman would that works at a factory. Jeans and T's. The funny part a good part of it is not even girly.

I just look like a dude and you can't tell I'm wearing womens jeans unless you look at the label or design really close up.

I also have no issues just throw on a dress and run to town to get bill paying done. Because a dress is quick to put on, its one item and I'm out the door

@HumanEarth but you were bought up by all women, weren’t you. Therefore I can understand that you are comfortable around that and it’s probably your safe haven..

Prim your right I was brought up and sounded by women. But wouldn't that make me have a more feminine personality.

I know we had this talk. My demons are in my head again. (I was at my family back in my hometown. That trigger these thoughts I bet ya)

@HumanEarth no it’s nothing to do with personality because you have no wish to be a woman, it’s like your security blanket. It’s comforting for you.

@Primnproper Maybe to point its a security blanket, but over the years its to be more normal for me.

@HumanEarth because you’re comfortable and that’s fine ..

@Primnproper I have been thinking that he does it because that's how he feels most comfortable, too.

@HootyTheNightOwl @Primnproper Plus I just simply find womens clothing and items beautiful, pretty, and comfortable.

But I hate it when that self hating doubt enters my head. It gets worse after I visit family back home.

@HumanEarth Many cross dressers that I've spoken to have said that they found women's clothing to be pretty and beautiful.

As for your family, you know that there are sound reasons why you have reduced contact with them as much as you can. Their beliefs are outdated and toxic to you and others who see the truth. As hard as it is, it's helpful if you can treat whatever they say as poison and filter it out as much as possible.

This is what I'm learning to do with my own family because the victim blaming and whataboutism is impossible for me to challenge when they simply dig their heels in further. Then, they wonder why so many women in my family live with abuse when they justify it with "It's not as bad as that time when...".

@HumanEarth You have the freedom to live your life unrestrained by your family. If they dont get it thats on them. Just because someone throws you a curve ball you dont have to catch it, so let it go over your head.

@HootyTheNightOwl Owl You know that is easier said then done from your own experiences

@Primnproper Oh, Cool Bring it. I need some sense knocked into me once and while. Sometimes I think and thats the problem

@HumanEarth Its reasoning you need to combat your own theories, thats all..you have to retrain your thought patterns in the brain.