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ABCDEF7 · M
Sure. We should not expect everyone to be a perfect man/woman.
Primnproper · 56-60, F
@ABCDEF7 True but it does affect trust and that’s a big part of any relationship.
ABCDEF7 · M
Primnproper · 56-60, F
@ABCDEF7 So you could totally get past an infidelity confidently.
ABCDEF7 · M
@Primnproper I can understand they had a reason to do that. That doesn't mean I feel it's right, or I will myself do that.
Even in today world, you can see many people sympathising with a criminal who has some genuine reason to do the crime. Why can't we have sympathy when we are the victim of that crime.
Even in today world, you can see many people sympathising with a criminal who has some genuine reason to do the crime. Why can't we have sympathy when we are the victim of that crime.
Primnproper · 56-60, F
@ABCDEF7 That’s different, I could understand reasons they may have and even agree with them but that doesn’t mean I could carry on the relationship and get past the loss of trust. I wouldn’t do it back because as my nan said 2 wrongs don’t make a right.
ABCDEF7 · M
@Primnproper I would also never do it. But I am open to forgive. As whatever you are not forgiving, you will be living with that(poison) in your life. So forgiving is for you to live peacefully in mind.
Primnproper · 56-60, F
@ABCDEF7 I could forgive but not move forward. I’ve had to forgive a lot in my life but that does not mean I would carry on with it.