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Could You Take Back A Partner That’s Cheated?

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ABCDEF7 · M
Sure. We should not expect everyone to be a perfect man/woman.
Primnproper · 56-60, F
@ABCDEF7 True but it does affect trust and that’s a big part of any relationship.
ABCDEF7 · M
Primnproper · 56-60, F
@ABCDEF7 So you could totally get past an infidelity confidently.
ABCDEF7 · M
@Primnproper I can understand they had a reason to do that. That doesn't mean I feel it's right, or I will myself do that.

Even in today world, you can see many people sympathising with a criminal who has some genuine reason to do the crime. Why can't we have sympathy when we are the victim of that crime.
Primnproper · 56-60, F
@ABCDEF7 That’s different, I could understand reasons they may have and even agree with them but that doesn’t mean I could carry on the relationship and get past the loss of trust. I wouldn’t do it back because as my nan said 2 wrongs don’t make a right.
ABCDEF7 · M
@Primnproper I would also never do it. But I am open to forgive. As whatever you are not forgiving, you will be living with that(poison) in your life. So forgiving is for you to live peacefully in mind.
Primnproper · 56-60, F
@ABCDEF7 I could forgive but not move forward. I’ve had to forgive a lot in my life but that does not mean I would carry on with it.