What is it that attracts you most to people? whether they’re just a friend or a love interest

@fakable That would suggest that you require something other than personality traits from them to be drawn to them

@Primnproper

no

you don't see your partner's personality

it's impossible

you see only actions

i am interested in any actions of the partner that are useful for me

this is a universal interaction mechanism that works for all people

@fakable I understand peoples words are backed up by their actions, after all words can be spoken and are untrue and not meant.