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Has any woman worked men out yet and are there any men who have women worked out?

I watch friends & families marriages or dating experiences and there seems to be a lot of game playing and not in a good way. What are your experiences.
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whowasthatmaskedman70-79, M
Sure. Both are quite straighforward. However, you have to be able to frame them in terms you arent comfortable with and think outside your comfort zone. First, know that both genders come with a double decker personality. The instinct animal, and the evolved human and they interact. Women instinctively seek good genes and security for themselves and their offspring. Which is perfectly understandable. But here it gets complicated, The evolved woman wants to do what she wants..And that changes according to a bunch of factors I wont blame on her time of the month. (but some might). Basically, she wants one of two things. More, and something else. She keeps wanting more, until the moment comes when she wants something else, Now guys. You need to go figure out what that is.. Good Luck!
Now for the guys. At the animal level, they desire to breed with anything they can catch. Some more than others, but its still there in the background. The better looking and smoother (or richer) a guy is the more opportunities he will get and dont expect him not to take advantage. Really ideally a guy seeks the perfect woman . Once he finds her he will settle down happily enough hoping she never changes,. But she does. Kids, career, age, boredom. Life is change. So he will adapt one way or another. A large part of that will be how much she wants to improve her perfect man. Because he will never really change..Just put on a Husband suit when she is around. If you dont believe me, watch him carefully when he is watching football, boxing or playing sport with his old male friends. The guy you first took up with is still in there, Just less hair and more gut..So letting him be him sometimes will help him he happy with who he has become for you..That wont stop him looking at other women. But it will keep him happy to just look..馃樂
Primnproper56-60, F
@whowasthatmaskedman I wonder if those ideals change from country to country because a few have made those same remarks about women and I have to say in the UK from my experience many women just want a dependable guy that loves them wholeheartedly and that we are enough for and they are committed to.
whowasthatmaskedman70-79, M
@Primnproper I am sure there are cultural differences from country to country, with religion also feeding in. But I think they serve as second level factors on what makes a man happy with his woman and vice versa.If my wife conforms or excels in some cultural area as a successfull hostess or housekeeper or your husband shows you the respect or has the ability to provide through his ability to network with his fellows, these all add you the mutual content. I should note, since you show an interest, these are generalizations. No everyone is like this.. There are psychological differences that make some unsuitable as partners. But these explanations work for most people, to at least some extent..馃樂