Has any woman worked men out yet and are there any men who have women worked out?

@Nihiless I can understand that it can be very tiresome.

@Nihiless I have no idea but I assume you are a young man. Work on yourself. Do 100 pushups every day, minimum. Figure out how to be financially successful. Historically, men marry in their 30's after they have established themselves. Women marry young while fertile. This is why dating is frustrating for young men. In ten years IF YOU MAKE THEM COUNT you will be amazed how much easier dating is.

@IronHamster I’m not sure that’s the right kind of advice to give any young man. Usually it’s only men who have been used or screwed over in relationships that have that jaded view, it’s not a given for everyone.

@Primnproper You might not like what I say, but I won't lie to you. This comes from my observations and personal experience but there are exceptions to every rule.

@IronHamster it’s not a case of not liking I just don’t agree and everything I have seen in life has been the opposite to these experiences.

@Primnproper So, a guy that doesn't have a fit body, decent income, or even own a car, living in his mother's spare room, has the same odds of picking up a girl that Leonardo DeCaprio has?

@IronHamster To many women yes, if the guy in the spare room had a nicer disposition and was generally a loving soul I’d put my money on him rather than a high flier like Decaprio. My first husband was unemployed and still at home when I met him but we connected and knew from the start we wanted the same things and we were together for 15yrs.

@Primnproper If I may ask, what was it that attracted you to your husband?

Physiologically, we can measure the chemicals that create "love", but I am at a loss to explain why one person evokes this over all others.