Today will be the day that I speak my mind to my abusive bf.. I feel like this is gonna go... | I Believe Actions Speak Louder Than Words

Dv8rs · 18-21, F

Bring some muscle, someone who can stand behind you, just in case things start to go south. Perhaps he won't be abusive, if there's a witness.

Neoerectus · M

Have a safe word caller to you. ie set up a friend to ask if safe. One word means ok.. Another 'help'

daddylikestoshow · 46-50, M

Leave him, and take someone with you . When you tell him

th3r0n · 41-45, M

So they don't know how to treat women there either huh? I'm sorry to hear it

originnone · 61-69, M

Do you have options for him and specific things you want him to change? It doesn't have to go terribly.

StevetheSleeve · 31-35, M

Is there a way he could react that would satisfy you?

MissyChrissy · 18-21, F

I wish you luck, honey.
If you need to talk, I will be there for you.

Busybee333 · 31-35, F

If face to face doesn't work, write a letter for closure and leave.

VampireOfDesire · 26-30, M

You think words will work?

Teslin · M

Be strong !! If he is abusive, run away !!
Don't walk, run !!!!

Daviszabecki · 56-60, M

Stand up for yourself and take care!

Japrost · 41-45, M

Break-up with him

pdockal · 56-60, M

It'll be terrible until you end the relationship

caccoon · 36-40

Do you think talking to him about it will yield positive results?

You can speak your mind to him if you want to. But GET RID OF HIM is what you should do.

Nomad7 · 26-30, M

Hold your hands up to cover your face and chest, so that you don’t get KO’d in the first shot

BeefySenpie · M

Anything other than kicking him to the curb would be a dumb choice