Do you use other people's secrets against them or as leverage?

I'm pretty quiet even when I do want to say something. But I know eventually it'll all spill out and I'll go overboard with it lol

Definitely not. Never have. Unlike some.
If I exposed / revealed some very personal things, (some have no clue I know) yikes.

I used to.
Now I just let them do it themselves.

Only once or twice

No, neither.

No that’s a D’ck move 🖤