What are you? I’m an INFJ

@KuroNeko
It happens if we don’t know ourselves!

@Carazaa no, it happens when we score close to 50/50 on some things. The only thing I score really strongly on is the intuitive. I know myself pretty well. It's not a model everyone is going to fit cleanly into. There are shades of everything.

@KuroNeko Ok!

@KuroNeko I get exactly the same score every time I take it INFJ one point more introverted than extroverted!

@Carazaa I guess some people are a little more fluid. Nothing wrong with that. People change over the years.

@KuroNeko
Your personality doesn’t change! You are born with a personality and it is stable your whole life! We can act different at certain times but we can never change our personality!

@Carazaa that's not true. I know plenty of people who change types or type as a few different ones. I've studied this stuff for years. Nothing in life is black and white.

@Carazaa every choice we make changes our personality! We can shape the world and the world can shape us, but we can also shape ourselves. Saying we can't change is a very easy way of avoiding responsibility for the things we do 🤔

@CheshireCatalyst it also disregards neural plasticity. I just like to say those words 😏

@KuroNeko personalities are stable! You can try to change but it never becomes natural!
An easier test is the color code it says the same but 4 personalities! If you take the 16 and divide into 4 you have a Primary and Secondary!

Fun loving -you love activities, popular, loud voice, colorful, fun, bad with money, bad with time management. Many friends , looks good on the surface! Charming! ( Lucille ball)

Goal oriented- you are bold, brave, good thinker, makes good decisions, loud voice, impatient, messy, gets a lot done, unpopular, confident, fast, not sensitive. Few friends, impressive! ( most leaders)

perfectionistic- you are detailed, organized, writes lists, very sensitive, creative, picky, few friends but good friends, look good, soft voice! Nice manicure, nice hairstyle, slow, moody, genius prone! Good with money and time! ( most famous writers and scientists and accountants)

melancholic peaceful- peaceful
Slow, thinks a long time before making a decision, funny, sarcastic, diplomatic, content, ( jimmy Fallon)

@Carazaa My point was that I don't fit neatly into one type. I can be introverted or extroverted. People can drain or energise me. I am a thinker and I can use that to navigate life but I'm also a feeler and can just as easily use my heart in decisions. I can be perfectionist in what I create and do, but I can also be lazy and messy. I can be both sensitive and insensitive, sarcastic or serious, loud or quiet....the list goes on.

I am who I am, and that encompasses a wide variety of variable traits.

So, as the title of this group suggests, perhaps just accept me as I am?

@KuroNeko We are all unique and change from day to day but you are one of the above primarily and another secondarily!

@Carazaa That's just not how it is with me. The only thing I am completely one way on is the intuitive. Sorry that's not fitting with your world view 😜

@KuroNeko no one is “one way” this is just your basic personality! We are all a combination!