AITA for wanting a kid free weekend? lol?

my cousin asked if i would babysit her baby this weekend (keep in mind, the last two weekends he has been at my house)… my daughter is at her dads house til sunday, & i was looking forward to a much needed break this weekend lol, but she got all pissy with me because i said i couldn’t babysit. but like? if my own toddler isn’t gonna be here, why should i have to babysit someone else’s toddler? lol
i love this kid SO much, but i really need a break. i want a very relaxing weekend. :/

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robbie2499 · 61-69, F

There is absolutely nothing wrong with saying "no". It sounds like this child free weekend is very much needed for yourself and your needs should come first. There is nothing wrong about taking care of one's self.

Roundandroundwego · 61-69

A judge gave my ex no visitation, zero. To punish me. She wanted me exhausted, she said. Near death!
It's important to live for yourself, too. But it's impossible to get social support for that in a very misogynistic society.

Madmonk · M

Yeah YATAH if she absolutely has nowhere else to go. Outside of that then you’re alright NTAH

YoMomma · 41-45

Yeah you're bot obligated to provide her with free babysitting on your mini vacation 😅 haha

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