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Theyitis · 36-40, M
You always forgive. Forgiving doesn’t necessarily mean giving them a chance to hurt you again, it just means not letting yourself be consumed with a desire to see them get their comeuppance.
@Theyitis You keep forgiving they'll keep doing it, and it soon becomes a pattern of abuse.
Theyitis · 36-40, M
@NativePortlander1970 No, like I said before, forgiving doesn’t mean giving them another chance to hurt you, it just means not letting yourself be consumed with a desire to see them get their comeuppance. It doesn’t mean you give them another chance, it just means you don’t want revenge. I think I’ve said it pretty clearly, do you get it now?