As a young man is it possible to be a rebel for life and live outside of society’s rules rebelling against society and not conforming to society?

You can find something close. I lived in a van for almost a year and did great. Just stayed out of the way. But unless you want to be completely homeless, you'll have to find some way to get food and water. But if you steal and get caught you're stuck in the system. You can't completely evade it, but you can be on the fringe and make it work.