Is it worth moving a man into your house if he's unemployed?

Because every time you buy something new and show them they feel intimidated and disrespected because they don’t have the same power and money to buy things too. They also feel like you’re showing off and flaunting your money in their faces and because they want power in the relationship they become abusive because they know it hurts you and they like that they can control you. They might have to ask for money which hurts they’re ego too. When you don’t depend on men they feel useless and they know you don’t really need them and then you can leave them whenever you want but if you don’t have money and depend on the man be it financially or emotionally they know you can’t leave them or to make you stay they abuse you. It’s all manipulation.