Why do you have to please others?
If they don’t like ya then they can fick away. As long as you respect people and are kind then you don’t have to please anyone.
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Casheyane · 31-35, F
Most people expect you to treat them well (which equates to pleasing them to some extent) to consider you good.
It depends on the group of people and the individual. At times, you don't even have to purposely do bad things to them for them to consider you bad. One always has the tendency to judge another based on his/her limited perspective. But then, so do we.
Society is kinda fucked up like that.
It depends on the group of people and the individual. At times, you don't even have to purposely do bad things to them for them to consider you bad. One always has the tendency to judge another based on his/her limited perspective. But then, so do we.
Society is kinda fucked up like that.
SW-User
I don’t try anymore. I tried to be friends with people that I “thought” were kind but they turned out vile lunatics. I won’t put myself at risk anymore. It happened to me here by one young lady. I thought she was the sweetest so I reached out to her. It turned out she had two personalities and was manipulative. Her bad side was a nightmare. She attacked me many times and I had to get admin involved. She taught me a lesson I’ll never forget. @Casheyane The funny part is she attacked me for telling her one member here bullied me, but she ended up calling that member a “bich.” The hypocrisy is for real. She just wanted to put me down with any excuse.
SW-User
@Casheyane thank you, I’m glad she showed her true self earlier than later. She did me a favor and it was a blessing in disguise.