I hate that my baby daddy hates me

I just don't understand how I deserve horrible treatment. I gave him money. Like he get mad when I said I didn't have money and guess what he didn't pay me back. He said he used me for sex and money, abused me, threatened me, & accused of cheating. I need some friends to talk to and does therapy work?
I cannot think about going back to him. I wanted this big happy family. I am trying to get over it. I don't think I can find a Single dad. They said it is rare. I am a Single mom

Top | Newest First | Oldest First

Souls

A man will only do what you allow him to do

Shakealot · 26-30, F

@Souls I heard that.🥺 You teach people how to treat you I shouldn't have let him treated me like that. I cannot change anybody.

Souls

@Shakealot No matter what anyone else does, you can choose how you respond and what you want to do moving forward.

MntoNc · 36-40, M

Try getting married first before having a child with someone. When will you all learn

View 1 more replies »

Jenny1234 · 51-55, F

@MntoNc if only we were all that perfect

MntoNc · 36-40, M

@Jenny1234 you act like its hard not to have kids. Either use a condom or dont have sex. Simple

Jenny1234 · 51-55, F

@MntoNc your comment to her was a little inappropriate. It’s not 1899 anymore

funloving1 · 18-21, M

I shouldn't have let him treated me like that. I cannot change anybody.

The only person you can change is yourself, your thinking, your priorities, your dignity.

SW-User

Well you have a child you need to focus on now. Do whatever you need to do to give that child the best chance at a decent life as possible.

Jenny1234 · 51-55, F

He is sick. He is not normal. You don’t want someone like that

caccoon · 36-40

Just focus on yourself and your little one for now. I am sorry, I know that's ignorant of me.

But you KNOW he's definitely bad news. Whatever good men or people may come in the future is great. But life is hard enough without having to deal with relationship bullshit 💙

Take care. Big hugs 💙💙💙 you deserve better

Shakealot · 26-30, F

I filed for Child Support August 3. I think it is hard to get over someone who treated you bad.

candycane · 31-35, F

@Shakealot it b easy for me

candycane · 31-35, F

Make him pay u child support

Shakealot · 26-30, F

@candycane I filed for Child Support this month. Now waiting on their response.

Add a comment...