Why do we live in an age where boys want to be girls and girls want to be boys?

Because children are conditioned and manipulated at a young age to think this way. They do not have the cognitive ability to distinguish fantasy from reality and often become very confused and even distraught. As for adults, i dont have an answer. Its almost like they cant face reality and rather live in a fantasy world. And western society right now not only allows it but encourages and advocates for it. I just read a story where this mother put his 11 year old son on puberty blockers because he said hes a girl and the mother didnt even bother to ask him what he meant. She appeased him. Well long story short he now has a micropenis. He cannot get bottom surgery because of the costs. He is suicidal and has already begun hurting himself. He cant experience physical pleasure or erections. So now hes stuck in the middle. Cant be a woman and cant really be much of a man either. Mother is so desperate she's been reaching out on social media and people are shaming her for basically mutilating her son. Because this is all her fault