How did he/she leave you?

@Royricky09 he could have told me point blank and made arrangements. we're married with children.

@thepastbehindme okay and what do you think could be the reason that he didn't do it this way? Or chose the other way

@thepastbehindme that's a typical answer.

Or if this is how you've respected, then he chose the way and not to get involved in arguments. Just saying.

Or maybe he did speak to you in the past and it turned from a conversation to something else.

@Royricky09 rhetorically, as a family man, before leaving your family, what will you do?

would you just ghost them & leave them without anything?

@thepastbehindme oh so it's about leaving with nothing..

If you push a man this far, this happens. And you mentioned you are struggling with depression. I don't think so.

Depressed people don't talk like that.

@Royricky09 so are you a psychiatrist who can give me proper diagnosis?

I'm really diagnosed with depression...if you don't believe me, that's ok. I'm not here to prove myself to anyone.

If I pushed him far, I really don't know. I only expected that as a couple, we can talk things out before the separation, just saying...

@thepastbehindme well it seems like you have so much time in your life to have the luxury of depression.

What you mentioned above only a small part of what you didn't like and expected it to be different.

@Royricky09 depression is NOT A LUXURY, it's an illness.
Even famous people had it and died because of that disease.
I'm trying to cope here with all the misgivings and mishaps.